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What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

Last Updated: 20.06.2025 17:20

What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

You want to forget him/her completely. But ever thought why? And what do you mean by getting over?

You're an obsessed/insecure/desperate simp/immature, depending on actions you did.

Because they aren’t what they showed themselves to be?

Can they start feeding only one meal to prisoners on death row or those doing a life sentence? Because only then will it be real punishment. If they want extra food they can work or pay from their own pocket.

Because the one you cared for doesn’t care for you?

Now, while it may not be just a ‘she’ it might also be a ‘he’. What’s more important to know, is that, you can’t exactly delete someone from your head. Infact forcing.

Because it hurts that they are not with you?

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But do make sure you aren't only lost in their thoughts, cry but only when it’s been too much.

Because you were just unlucky in love?

Because you are in sorrow without them?

I have a bad reputation and need help. What should I do?

Or because it hurts because they are with someone else?

Stop fawning at others and work more on yourself, understand that getting that one person isn't the only thing.

If you relate to all the first cases you need to, above all, accept, that they are not gonna either stay with you, and nor are they ginna get away from your past.

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Because only you LOVED?

If you do remember them occasionally and feel like crying, don't resist, cry, it'll gradually reduce on its own.

Or are you just jealous and he/she hurt your ego by rejecting you?

Why should the law care about what I do behind closed doors?

You need to start treating people like people, not achievements.

It's as harmful and futile to try to force forget, as much as it is to try to force get someone.

If you're the type of all second cases, then, acceptance is still a must but,

What were the first few days, weeks, months and then years like after finding out about your spouses infidelity? How did your feelings, and yours & their approach to the situation change in the immediate aftermath compared to later down the line?

I love getting tired of loving that someone though…

Or because you had created a random perfect image of them and they just broke your delusion?

Focus on other things, and people, stay busy, stay lively, work, make goals, have hobbies, have friends and relax.

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True love, if one sided, does hurt and we want to forget or get over people, just keep going on with life, keep living and you'll get over it.

Although if you're just a stubborn egoistic obsessed insecure immature teenager, grow up. Understand that you just feel that you can shift the orbit of the universe if you get your dream girl, BUT YOU CAN'T.

Or because they’re happy without you.

Have you ever seen a woman having sex with a dog?

Or you just over-cared expecting the same in return but are now disappointed?

Or because she doesn’t love you back?

~KSR

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